Woman asks if she’s wrong to skip brother’s wedding for vacation after she’s demoted from being a bridesmaid

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. “It broke my heart a little but it’s her wedding and it’s not my place to tell her how to run it so I said it was fine.” The woman said the situation worsened when she went to pick up her bridesmaid dress from her brother’s house in the hopes that she would be able to return it for a full refund. In the post, the woman said she explained to her future sister-in-law that she wouldn’t just give away the dress, and that she was “not ever going to use it after the wedding”. The only downside is that I’ll be in Florida for the week of my brother’s wedding,” she wrote, before asking: “So will I be the a**hole if I just go party in Miami instead of going to my brother’s wedding?” The post, which has since been upvoted more than 26,000 times, has sparked a debate in the comments, where many users have encouraged the woman to go to Miami and skip the wedding, while others have warned her the decision may ruin her relationship with her brother permanently. Someone else agreed with the suggestion, as they claimed that the decision would likely “burn bridges” with the woman’s brother and his soon-to-be wife.