Help! Everyone Says I Should Feel “Lucky” That My Husband Is Obsessed With Me. But It’s Driving Me Nuts.

Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. I’ve tried standing up, stretching, talking about the time we normally close things down to get ready for bed, saying “Oh my, it’s been so good catching up!” and literally walking to stand near the door when it seems like things are winding down. Dear It’s Time to Leave, You have to think of the time you need alone as time when you’re busy. It may feel uncomfortable, or even kind of mean, to be so direct, but trust me, a fun get together isn’t a good time because of how long it lasted. However, I understand if you want to slow down the “extras” you perform on your husband’s behalf for Christmas if he won’t participate in your energetic celebration of Halloween.