Man sparks outrage over night out with female colleague without mentioning girlfriend

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. In a recent post shared to the popular “Relationship Advice” Reddit forum, a woman asked if she was in the wrong for messaging her boyfriend’s colleague, since she suspected he was cheating. As she was getting ready to go to sleep, she saw a notification on his phone from Addy, who texted: “U Up?” From there, the woman decided to read the messages, discovering that her boyfriend and Addy went “to see the city lights, watch a movie, and play minigolf” on the night she went to her parents’ house. I told her that I knew when they went out asked her not to message my boyfriend until I figured everything out.” Despite not getting an immediate response, she saw Addy removed her boyfriend from her followers on Instagram “a few minutes later.” In an update to the post, she said Addy responded to the message, explaining she didn’t know he had a girlfriend. In her message, Addy told her colleague’s girlfriend that she “felt bad” for her and that she was “sorry this happened.” She clarified that she wouldn’t have gone out with him if she knew he was in a relationship and that she “won’t be associating with him now.” When the poster asked Addy if she did see the city lights and go mini-golfing with him, she said: “He asked for a kiss at our last meeting and I rejected him.” In the comments, readers criticized the Reddit user’s boyfriend for how he treated her and urged her to end the relationship.