Are scarves, hijab, ghoonghat, turban a matter of faith, fashion or functionality?
The Hindu“Cover your head, see how fast you’re greying!” said a senior neighbour, who always covers her head with a dupatta. Why had I assumed when we first became neighbours that her covered head was a sign that she was a devout and traditional Hindu, North Indian woman — and therefore ‘old-fashioned’? We complied with the uniform rules but rolled up our half-sleeves just a bit or pulled out our shirt till some frowning teacher barked, “Insert your shirt!” Some girls wore tight kurtas to look like Mumtaz, and half the boys wore their hair as long as Rajesh Khanna’s until a teacher threatened to do the honours right there in class with blunt paper-scissors. Euphemism for, ‘no respectable family will accept you as a daughter-in-law if you’re seen wearing modern clothes!’ Without being told, we knew what ‘modern’ meant — anything that wasn’t a long skirt or a saree. Instead of wearing the tight, short blouses over the langa, as was the fashion in Bangalore then, some of us wore loose shirts, mostly our brothers’ hand-me-downs.