I’m Not Sure When to Tell My Dates About a Particular Part of My Body

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Humor is a chance to show off your sense of it, which can be another way of increasing a swiper’s ability to discern whether you might be a good match. You’ll attract some people who appreciate amputees, which can be negative—in the sense that they may objectify you—or positive, in the sense that they will actively enjoy your new form, which can be helpful for reinforcing our own appreciation of ourselves. It helps, but we would love suggestions on replicating our favorite moves in a way that won’t snap a limb. If your partner is penetrating you with fingers or a toy, that’s one thing, but if you’re going for a real DP scenario you’ll want to make sure both of the people involved are comfortable having their penises super close to each other’s cock and balls.