How Working On My 'Extrovert Skills' Made Me A Happier Introvert

8 years, 8 months ago

How Working On My 'Extrovert Skills' Made Me A Happier Introvert

This article first appeared on QuietRev.com “Being introverted doesn’t mean you’re shy.” That’s what I always tell people because when I start talking no one believes I’m an introvert. But it’s only half true: sure, we may not be shy, but many introverts do experience social isolation or feel awkward around new people. A person isn’t a “stranger” if a mutual friend introduces them. I reasoned that if I could get my inner needs met, the people around me wouldn’t feel like a distraction.

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