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Why singles are 'pre-screening' their dates

Why singles are 'pre-screening' their dates Getty Images Before the pandemic, Louise, 33, was a prolific dater. So, I make sure that I take the time to get to know someone first, to make sure that we’re on the same page.” Getty Images Virtual meet-ups are becoming more common, even as pandemic restrictions ease, so daters can pre-screen partners before getting together Whether it was changing careers or moving cities, the pandemic prompted many people to re-evaluate their lives – and love lives were not exempt from this reckoning. “Virtual dates are the new coffee dates – a low-pressure way to see if you and your match connect,” says Logan Ury, a behavioural scientist and director of relationship science at Hinge. You get a sense of the person, from the comfort of your own home, without a long commute or expensive evening.” Virtual dates are the new coffee dates – a low-pressure way to see if you and your match connect – Logan Ury The idea of not wanting to commit time, energy and money to multiple in-person first dates is certainly one that resonates with Louise. “Seeking more connection, many are adopting a slower and more intentional approach to dating, to ensure a good fit that does not waste their time or drain their energy.” The idea of time-wasting is one that comes up a lot among daters embracing low-stakes first dates.

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