6 Surprising Things That Can Happen When You Have An Orgasm

There are many terms for it: Orgasm. “A fair number of people report feeling sad, overwhelmed, tearful or emotional after an orgasm.” Those who get teary after sex might be concerned it’s a sign of an underlying issue in the relationship with their partner, but that’s not necessarily true. “Still, if it happens to you and you suspect another reason ― like you aren’t actually happy in your relationship ― it’s a good idea to sort this out with a confidant or a therapist.” Some survivors of sexual trauma may experience postcoital dysphoria, even after good sex. “It’s also worth it to speak to a therapist if you often find yourself having feelings of shame, guilt or sadness following sex,” psychologist and sex therapist Rachel Needle told Bustle. A research review from Tulane University noted that POIS “negatively affects the life of patients by limiting sexual encounters, dampening romantic prospects, creating internal struggles to avoid eroticism, and affecting patients’ schedules.”