Relationship expert reveals how to avoid becoming a ‘girlfriend fluffer’

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. “Don’t just think ‘well I guess I’m just the fluffer girl’ because then you’ll continue to be the fluffer girl.” Sabrina believes there may be a few reasons why women end up as ‘girlfriend-fluffers’. “So maybe it’s possible that needs someone new and he jumps on it.” To avoid this happening, Sabrina says the woman needs to look at ‘who and why’ she’s choosing to date. “She needs to look at ‘how much am I putting into my relationship, who am I choosing and why am I choosing those people?’ “ The other reason women may find themselves in ‘fluffer’ territory is all down to timing, Sabrina says. “A guy maybe ready to get married but is dating a woman and thinks she isn’t the right match but the next person he is compatible with and gets married pretty quickly.