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My Husband Would Be Aghast If He Knew What I Have to Think About Before We Sleep Together

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Dear How to Do It, For the past several months, I, a 32-year-old woman, can’t stop fantasizing whenever my husband and I have sex. —Head Games Dear Head Games, What you’re experiencing isn’t necessarily abnormal or wrong. Works like Justin Lehmiller’s Tell Me What You Want illustrate how vast and common sexual fantasies are. —Jessica More Advice From Slate I’m a mid-20s trans man who’s never had partnered sex for various reasons and so this has always been more a quirk than a problem.

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