My Mom Can’t Seem to Stop Punishing Me for Moving Away
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My Mom Can’t Seem to Stop Punishing Me for Moving Away

Slate  

Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. I live a three-hour train ride away, and yes, I am very much aware of the cost of the trip because I’ve been doing it several times a year for the past 11 years. The responsibility has always been on me, and obviously it’s never enough: “I never see the kids,” “You never stay long enough,” etc. And repeat, kindly but firmly: “Mum, we’ll host you anytime, and I’ll be happy to help with the expense.” Don’t get baited into an argument about how much money she actually has. Related From Slate How to Make Your Parent Friendships Work Even When You Disagree About Parenting Dear Care and Feeding, My husband and I have been at our wit’s end with our kids.

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