How to care for a parent at the end of life.

1 day, 18 hours ago

Caregiving can test you, body and soul. It can also unlock a new sense of self

NPR

Caregiving can test you, body and soul. It can also unlock a new sense of self toggle caption Laura Bilson for NPR When it was all over, Amanda Cruz felt like a phoenix, a new person rising from what had been. Their argument, simply called "caregiver identity theory," is now widely accepted among psychologists and social workers who study and …

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2 weeks, 5 days ago

There's 1 Thing No One Seems To Be Talking About Regarding Gene Hackman's Death

Huff Post

Gene Hackman was found dead in his home on Feb. 26. Hackman, 95, and reportedly diagnosed with advanced Alzheimer’s, was found dead in his Santa Fe home seven days after Arakawa’s unexpected passing. For me, setting up a system wasn’t just about making my dad’s care easier — it was about protecting him and others like me. I don’t say …

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3 weeks, 1 day ago

Emma Hemming Willis speaks up for caregivers after deaths of Betsy Arakawa and Gene Hackman

CNN

CNN — As Bruce Willis lives with frontotemporal dementia, his wife Emma Heming Willis has become an advocate for others supporting loved ones with longterm care needs. “So this is not something I would normally comment on, but I do really believe that there is some learning in this story,” Heming Willis said of Hackman and Arakawa. Arakawa, 65, died …

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3 weeks, 6 days ago

Terminal cancer patient throws goodbye party: Man invites family, friends to ‘celebrate his life’

Hindustan Times

A daughter’s video of a man celebrating with his family and friends “while he is alive” has tugged at the people's heartstrings. The man, a terminal cancer patient, decided to spend meaningful time with his near and dear ones to say goodbye. She explained that her dad didn’t like the idea of a gathering where “he wouldn’t be present.” So, …

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1 month ago

How to give your loved ones a GOOD death... by the hospice nurse and TikTok influencer who says caring for the dying is great fun!

Daily Mail

For years, Penny Hawkins Smith didn't believe in an afterlife until she became a hospice nurse – and watched as, time and time again, dying patients became convinced they were being visited by their dead relatives. In today's deeply touching second extract from her new book, she describes the telltale signs that death is near, and what you need to …

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1 month ago

I’m Estranged From My Dad. My Son Is Curious.

Slate

On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy and Zak are talking about estrangement. We got a really thoughtful question from a listener whose four-year-old is starting to ask questions about why one of his grandparents isn’t in the picture. Elizabeth recommended the following resources: A Family Is A Family Is A Family by Sara O’Leary The Not So Friendly Friend: How to …

2 months, 2 weeks ago

Paid to Care: When Class, Power, and Caregiving Collide

Slate

When Delores moved to New York City from Jamaica nearly thirty years ago she didn’t know anyone. In this week’s episode on paid caretaking, we explore the class and power dynamics inherent in care work. Plus, we hear from Faye*, a woman living with debilitating multiple sclerosis, and her husband Murray*, about how hiring outside help for caregiving shifts became …

Slate Care Work

2 months, 3 weeks ago

Mom’s the Favorite. Dad’s Mad.

Slate

A note: this episode was recorded just minutes after the Palisades Fire reportedly ignited in California. If you want to help victims of any of the fires in the Los Angeles metro area, please consider donating to the California Fire Foundation, Direct Relief, World Central Kitchen, or CORE. Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us …

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3 months, 1 week ago

My Kid Was Late and Lost Their Helper Day

Slate

On this episode: Jamilah, Lucy, and returning guest host Dillon Michael White answer a question from a member of the Slate Parenting Facebook group about being on time. This kindergartener’s class has helper days that you lose if you’re late to school that day… but what do you do when it’s your fault your kid is late? Join us on …

Late

3 months, 2 weeks ago

Corporates devise policies to help employees with familial responsibilities

The Hindu

“When my father’s health started to decline due to old age, I found myself struggling with caregiving responsibilities and with my professional commitments. With conversations around work-life balance taking centrestage in recent times, many corporate companies have begun to devise caregiver policies that provide flexibility and additional facilities to their employees to take care of their ailing family members. From …

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3 months, 2 weeks ago

Will My Kid Want My Advice?

Slate

On this episode: Zak, Elizabeth and Jamilah help a parent who’s thinking ahead to when her baby is a little bigger… and wondering how to build a close relationship with a kid who has a life of their own. We’ll also check in on where the hosts are this week – and then, if you’re coming to hang out on …

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3 months, 2 weeks ago

I’m Dreaming Of A Full Night’s Sleep

Slate

On this episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah and Zak help a member of the Slate Parenting Facebook group whose whole household is struggling with a little one’s sleepless nights. We’ll talk about how to help a kid settle, and stay settled… and why it might not be smart to watch the clock. Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to …

4 months, 1 week ago

Nicole Kidman's Heartbreaking Reaction To Her Parents' Death Nails This 1 Part Of Grief

Huff Post

LOADING ERROR LOADING Nicole Kidman recently opened up about her journey grieving the death of her parents. The “Big Little Lies” star had arrived in Italy in September for the Venice Film Festival, but had to leave early — before she was awarded best actress for the film “Babygirl” — due to her mother’s sudden death, The Hollywood Reporter reported. …

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5 months ago

Caregiving can be a tough, lonely mission. One daughter found ways to reconnect

NPR

Caregiving can be a tough, lonely mission. One daughter found ways to reconnect toggle caption Eugene Richards for NPR Dawn Shedrick is matter-of-fact about the heartbreaks of caregiving. toggle caption Eugene Richards for NPR Shedrick didn’t call herself a caregiver at the time. “Witnessing her experiencing this awful — and that’s putting it nicely — awful disease, has been really …

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5 months ago

Australian family's grief after baby dies in tragic accident while on holiday of a lifetime in Bali

Daily Mail

An Australian couple are going through unthinkable grief after their baby boy died while on a family trip to Bali. Bronwyn Cox, the aunt of the boy's mother Grace, has organised a fundraiser for the distraught family after the child died on October 19. 'Our dear niece, Grace and her partner, Brendan have faced the unimaginable loss of their baby …

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5 months, 1 week ago

I found out my dad's 'cold' would kill him. Nothing could have prepared me to lose him so young - but there's one thing I wish I'd done differently

Daily Mail

Meredith Jamieson's world shattered when she found out her dad was dying. Meredith Jamieson's world shattered when she found out her dad was dying He was 59 when he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in November 2020 Long before his sudden death, the family-of-seven was living a seemingly normal life in Tasmania. Her dad died six months after he …

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5 months, 1 week ago

End-of-life doctor reveals the things that everyone should know about hospice care no matter your age

Daily Mail

She recently detailed the conversations people should have about hospice care Dr Shoshana Ungerleider often shares what people should know about death As an end-of-life expert, Dr Shoshana Underleider knows the importance of having a difficult conversation about death - and there's one in particular she wants people to have before it's too late. Shoshana regularly advises people who have …

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5 months, 2 weeks ago

5 tips to cope with parenting stress from Dr. Becky Kennedy

CNN

Editor’s note: The podcast Chasing Life With Dr. Sanjay Gupta explores the medical science behind some of life’s mysteries big and small. “Kids don’t need selfless martyrs, kids need sturdy leaders,” Kennedy said in an email. “There’s no such thing as a perfect parent,” Kennedy said, noting that her kids don’t have Dr. Becky as their mom. “Remember this: Feelings …

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5 months, 3 weeks ago

My Father Planned His Death. I Didn’t Stop Him.

Slate

One day on his morning Uber route, Jason Armstrong got an email from his father. This was the “ultimate act of narcissism.” But over the next few months, as Jason witnessed his dad’s careful preparations, his perspective shifted. In this episode, Jason talks to Anna about processing his father’s choice - from panic attacks on morning walks to a poignant …

Jason Slate

5 months, 4 weeks ago

Anna Richardson on her guilt, frustration and anger at the lack of care available for her dad’s dementia

The Independent

Sign up to our free Living Well email for advice on living a happier, healthier and longer life Live your life healthier and happier with our free weekly Living Well newsletter Live your life healthier and happier with our free weekly Living Well newsletter SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. …

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6 months, 1 week ago

Tragedy as Aussie dad suddenly dies while on dream cruise ship holiday with his family

Daily Mail

An Aussie father-of-two has tragically died on a cruise ship holiday with his family. Edward Langley fell over on a footpath while on a stopover in Vanuatu, a popular holiday destination in the Pacific Islands about 1750km east of Australia. 'We can't even begin to understand what you are all going through now…' Ms Esterhuizen is raising funds for the …

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6 months, 1 week ago

Making (And Keeping) Parent Friends

Slate

On this episode: it’s Friendship Week at Slate, and we’re hopping aboard the friendship train to talk about the beauty, and challenges, of making friends in the parenting world… with special guest host Rebecca Onion, a senior editor for Slate. And then, if you’re joining us for the Plus Playground — out now in your podcast feed — we’re talking …

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6 months, 2 weeks ago

Who Cares for the Caregivers?

Slate

Nearly half of healthcare workers are at a breaking point, describing that they often or very often feel burnt out on the job. Psychiatrist Dr. Jessi Gold knows this firsthand when her mental overload caused her to make an unthinkable mistake with a patient. On this week’s episode of Well, Now Maya and Kavita speak with Dr. Gold about her …

6 months, 3 weeks ago

My Wife’s Making Me a Deadbeat Dad

Slate

On this episode: Elizabeth, Zak and Jamilah are joined by Allison Price of the Care & Feeding text column to talk through one of her most recent columns. This dad lets his wife lean into her Type A tendencies… and as a result, he’s been pushed out of parenting decisions. Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to …

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6 months, 3 weeks ago

Preparing for goodbye: How honest talks about death can ease the pain of loss

Hindustan Times

Dr. Vanessa Rodriguez is no stranger to talking about death. Palliative care doctor Dr. Vanessa Rodriguez advocates for open discussions about death to ease family anxieties. Start an open and honest dialogue Thinking through details and resolving loose ends can help families cope when the inevitable happens: Where might their loved one like to be buried? “But there are so …

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6 months, 3 weeks ago

One Man’s Meticulous Quest to Cure Grief

Slate

After Cody Delistraty’s mom died in his early 20s he decided to turn his grief into a research project with one central question: can grief be cured? Cody’s book is called The Grief Cure: Looking For the End of Loss Looking for more episodes on grief and longing? Here are some from our archive: When Grief Doesn’t Move In Stages …

Grief Slate

7 months ago

Wife finds way to manage grief after husband's death

ABC

Ruth Firstbrook sits down beside her husband Roger's grave and updates him on how the local bowls club is faring, how Wales is doing in the rugby, and how his mum is getting on. "My best friends know and think it's absolutely gorgeous and say to me, 'How's Roger this morning'," she said. Learning to 'grow around' grief But Ruth …

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8 months ago

Seniors' podcast aims to ease loneliness by sharing inspiring stories from nursing home residents

ABC

"Can you eat it, like peas in a pod?" University of Sydney sociologist Barbara Barbosa Neves says research shows about 60 per cent of aged care residents experience loneliness. Dr Barbosa Neves says the transition to aged care can be an "extremely emotional" time for many older people. A lasting reminder Podcast host Heather Querin says while they try not …

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8 months, 2 weeks ago

I Can’t Sleep When My Teen’s Gone

Slate

On this episode: Lucy, Jamilah, and special guest host Dan Kois help a member of the Slate Parenting Facebook group who’s unable to sleep unless everyone in the household is tucked in and all the doors are locked. We’ll also debrief with a round of parenting Triumphs & Fails – and chat about what Dan’s been up to since we …

8 months, 2 weeks ago

My Kid’s Friend Has Zero Supervision

Slate

On this episode: Zak, Lucy and Jamilah help a member of the Slate Parenting Facebook Group who’s torn about her kid’s new bestie. This girl is mostly unsupervised and tends toward naughtiness — ding-dong ditching, messy play, and watching adult YouTube — and that tendency is trickling down to our group member’s son. Zak recommends: See what happens if your …

Slate Slate Plus

9 months, 2 weeks ago

I Have Five Kids and Can’t Keep My Sh*t Together

Slate

On this episode: Zak, Lucy, and Elizabeth help a member of our Slate Parenting Facebook group who’s struggling to keep her head above water. We also dole out a round of recommendations — and, for our Slate Plus listeners, we’re talking about keeping teeth and making jewelry, and whether it’s actually as weird as it sounds. Lucy recommends: Makeup/Skincare shopping …

Slate Slate Plus

10 months, 3 weeks ago

Mom Guilt Is Real, but So Is Healing

Slate

On this episode: we present two very special segments celebrating the lifelong journey of being a mom. First up: Dr. Lindsay Cavanagh is back for mini therapy sessions with Jamilah, Lucy and Elizabeth — who each share a nagging guilt they have about being a mom. Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us new questions, …

1 year ago

'It was like hell': How vulnerable teens are kicked out of their foster homes on their 18th birthdays and 'dumped' in hostels with drug addicts

Daily Mail

MailOnline spoke to care leavers about how we can end the 'care cliff' Many describe the feeling as being on 'death row' or on a 'cliff edge' When a child goes into care, their entire life is turned upside down overnight. Duncan Langley, 25, saw his support system fall away as he was forced to move away from his foster …

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1 year, 4 months ago

6 Uncomfortable But Necessary Questions To Ask Your Older Parents

Huff Post

Dean Mitchell via Getty Images Experts share some of the most important things to ask your aging parents about their end-of-life wishes. Only one-third of Americans have advanced care directives in place, “leaving family members often struggling to determine what their parent’s wishes are or making choices that they may not have made for themselves,” Loren Talbot, director of communications …

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1 year, 6 months ago

I’m a dad who lost my baby. How am I supposed to grieve?

The Independent

When the doctor told us, in a room full of beeping, ringing alarms and panicked healthcare staff, that our baby boy Sasha’s heart had stopped beating, I suddenly felt like I wasn’t a modern man in an advanced society – I was just a scared mammal. I know many families who don’t get the mental health support they need from …

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1 year, 7 months ago

Opinion: A good death on hospice for my mom after the horror of brain cancer

LA Times

The author’s mother poses for a photo before riding a carousel with her grandchildren in January 2020. The hospice experience was starkly different from the previous three months that our mother, a highly regarded nurse working in a prenatal clinic at Los Angeles General Medical Center, spent in the hospital undergoing treatment for the cancer. “When we’re no longer focused …

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1 year, 8 months ago

Live long and flounder: An aging expert on the looming crisis of our longer lifespans

Salon

First, the good news. As author, MacArthur Fellowship recipient and founding head of DOJ's Elder Justice Initiative M. T. Connolly writes in her new book, "For millions of people, there has never been a better time to be old." We need your help to stay independent Subscribe today to support Salon's progressive journalism The numbers that you throw out about …

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1 year, 8 months ago

How to plan for aging in the future.

Slate

Caregivers provide an estimated $600 billion in free labor each year, according to the AARP. She and her partner found themselves navigating the confusing world of Medicare and Medicaid, estate planning, powers of attorney, etc., all in the hope of helping their loved ones stay healthy and comfortable until they need an end-of-life plan. On this episode of How To!, …

Care

1 year, 9 months ago

Sharon Horgan says she has PTSD from daughter’s health scare

The Independent

Sign up to our free Living Well email for advice on living a happier, healthier and longer life Live your life healthier and happier with our free weekly Living Well newsletter Live your life healthier and happier with our free weekly Living Well newsletter SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. …

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1 year, 11 months ago

Parents Who Lost A Child Share The Most Helpful Things People Did For Them

Huff Post

Illustration: Damon Dahlen/HuffPost; Photos: Getty "It’s the people who made space for my grief in their lives that made all the difference," said one parent who lost a child. They never told me what I should be doing or feeling.” “Avoid toxic positivity and instead, try to hold a grieving parent’s heart with compassion even if it means you sit …

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2 years ago

How Nicole Chung rewrote her memoir on grief after losing a second parent during COVID

LA Times

Nicole Chung’s new memoir, ‘A Living Remedy,’ recounts the loss of her father and mother at the hands of an inadequate healthcare system. Chung had already written a memoir, 2018’s “All You Can Ever Know,” about her adoption and search for her birth family. Books How grief became path-breaking poetry in Victoria Chang’s ‘Obit’ After her parents fell ill, Victoria …

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2 years ago

Six South Australians have accessed voluntary assisted dying, with the daughter of one saying it was a 'beautiful process'

ABC

The daughter of a woman who has died through accessing voluntary assisted dying in South Australia says she's happy her mother could die with dignity, and on her own terms. Key points: Denise Wyatt was diagnosed with Huntington's disease She is one of six people in SA who chose to access voluntary assisted dying since new laws took effect Her …

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2 years ago

I Was My Mom’s Caregiver When She Was Terminal. I Was Shocked By What I Didn’t Know About Dying.

Huff Post

The author and her mother. Photo Courtesy of Denise Massar The afternoon we found out she had six months to live, Mom and I watched ”Hello Dolly.” My freshman year of high school, the same year Dad left and my older brother Bob joined the Navy, Mom and I had Streisand’s “Broadway Album” in the tape deck as we ran …

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2 years, 1 month ago

Woman's Tweet on Dealing With Grief after Losing a Parent Reminds People of Their Own Experiences

News 18

Each person has their own way of grieving, and sometimes, it shows up most unexpectedly and can go on for days or even months. “There is an orange night light in my room that I used to sleep with, and every morning dad would wake up earlier than everyone else, unlock all the doors, switch off the night lights and …

Twitter Night

2 years, 1 month ago

4 pieces of advice for caregivers from caregivers : Life Kit : NPR

NPR

'Forgive yourself': 4 pieces of advice for caregivers, from caregivers Enlarge this image FG Trade/Getty Images FG Trade/Getty Images This story was originally published on Feb. 16, 2023, and has been updated. "Whether it's ordering someone to come and tidy up a house, having a meal sent, scheduling some time to just show up and just walk," Revere says. Look …

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2 years, 1 month ago

‘I miss my parents every day’, says Shane Filan as he begins cancer charity role

The Independent

Get the free Morning Headlines email for news from our reporters across the world Sign up to our free Morning Headlines email Sign up to our free Morning Headlines email SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. Read our privacy policy Westlife star Shane Filan has told how he misses his …

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2 years, 2 months ago

The essay Lisa Marie Presley wrote about her son’s death last summer

The Independent

Sign up to Roisin O’Connor’s free weekly newsletter Now Hear This for the inside track on all things music Get our Now Hear This email for free Get our Now Hear This email for free SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. Read our privacy policy Lisa Marie Presley, who has …

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2 years, 2 months ago

Care home centenarians enjoy festive birthdays and advise fresh air and laughter

The Independent

Get the free Morning Headlines email for news from our reporters across the world Sign up to our free Morning Headlines email Sign up to our free Morning Headlines email SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. Read our privacy policy Two care home residents who ended 2022 by celebrating their …

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2 years, 3 months ago

This Is What It's Really Like To Watch Your Mom Die Of Cancer

Huff Post

The writer and her mom in November 2016 when the writer got engaged and just two days after the tumor was found in her mom's liver. Sure, I’d seen movies like “A Walk to Remember” and “Stepmom.” I’d been watching patients die on “Grey’s Anatomy” since I was 12 years old. At one point my brother left the room and …

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How to care for a parent at the end of life.

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