SAUCY SECRETS: I've secretly started doing awful things to my husband as revenge for the life I NEVER wanted

Dear Jana, Lately, I've found myself feeling frustrated and becoming passive-aggressive in my marriage, much like my mother was with my father. Mail+ columnist Jana Hocking gives her trademark sassy advice to Aussies needing help with their love lives - or lack thereof So, if you're looking for adventure, and more spark in your love life, why not start by communicating it to your hubby - before you give the poor man a heart attack with all that salt. Seeing your man getting eyed up by another woman helps remind ourselves that it's an open market out there, and we should be thankful for what we've got. One time I even drove past an ex's house and saw another girl's car out the front and I parked behind her car, called him and made him come out and chat to me. With some grim statistics around men's mental health, if you're partner has a good friend to chat to then I say hurrah!