Queer couple dreaming of a baraat in rural north India ask how marriage equality is an ‘urban elitist’ matter
The HinduAmong the 20 petitioners seeking legalisation of same-sex marriage by the Supreme Court are a couple who say their lives are proof against the Centre’s stance that the petition reflects “urban elitist views”. “On various occasions, they would tell me that if I can’t bring a baraat to their doorsteps for their daughter, then I should stop wasting Bhawna’s time and just disappear from her life,” says Ms. Kajal. “Bhawna’s family would follow us wherever we have tried to live, coercing her to leave, threatening us and damaging my reputation in whichever neighbourhood we went to reside,” recalls Ms. Kajal. Legal sanction critical Ms. Bhawna and Ms. Kajal represent many such queer couples from small towns in India, who need the legal sanction to live a dignified life, where their relationship is acknowledged.