Home euthanasia and physician-assisted suicide: What my sister's euthanasia exposed about this controversial topic
SlateMy sister Theda had been bedridden for seven years when she first decided she wanted to die. Psychiatric disorders manifesting as physical disease are at the very bottom of that pile.” This distinction between physical, psychological, and hybrid suffering didn’t matter much to Theda in the end. “I’m not crazy!” she told me when mental illness causing physical symptoms came up once. She talked a lot about her physical condition, calling it “the sickness Theda has.” She believed that her illness existed because our family was in the “wrong realm.” She mythologized our migration and ethnic experience when speaking like this, saying our parents had migrated from more agreeable realms in their “past lives.” She also commonly linked her physical illness to trauma from “a past life” in which she’d been raped and buried alive for attempting to move freely in a single-ethnicity culture while being a half-caste. When we recognize that mental and physical illnesses are not so cleanly divided, we can also question the usefulness of that “divide” for deciding on someone’s right to die.