My Wife Transforms Into a Totally Different Person After She Orgasms. It Can Last for Weeks.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. In addition to my normal Christmas gift for her, I’d like to get some special things for her to use during sex. —Santa Baby Dear Santa, If your wife wears any lingerie at all, you can use that as a guide for the kind of style and type of garment she’d like. —The Silence Is Loud Dear the Silence Is Loud, You might not be a good fit for each other, but it’s worth trying some different options first. —It Was Always Good But Now It’s Not Dear It Was Always Good But Now It’s Not, At your wife’s age, I’d start with a visit to the gynecologist—it’s best to rule out physical or hormonal causes first, and the doctor may be able to offer topical medication or other options to help.