My Wife Said She Didn’t Want a Sex Toy. Then I Found Her Secret.
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My Wife Said She Didn’t Want a Sex Toy. Then I Found Her Secret.

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How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. It’s been three months and we are having sex less frequently, and meanwhile she is using the vibrator every day, and I don’t know how or whether to talk about it. “Honey, I found your vibrator and I know you rub one out every day” doesn’t seem wise, but I feel like I’m married to a stranger in some ways. —Couldn’t Stop If I Wanted To Dear Couldn’t Stop If I Wanted To, What you describe sounds like epididymal hypertension, also known as blue balls. As a concept, blue balls has been associated with coercion and pressure on partners—“If I don’t have sex, I’ll be in pain,” being used as an excuse to manipulate the less than enthusiastically consenting.

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