Add to list for 2021: Shed inhibitions

There are two common threads, I believe, that run through all great relationships — being uninhibited and being inspired. As for those in a relationship, as soon as you know that you’re in it for the long haul, it’s a good idea to start working out — together — what works for you. Your self-limiting beliefs can chip away at self-confidence, actually making you seem unattractive and perhaps not genuine. Music, books, movies, real-life couples — you can find inspiration anywhere, if you’re looking for it. So if you’re making a list for the new year, do make it one in which you strike off inhibitions, add inspiration and find the things that work to get you into the right relationship and keep it vibrant.