Love Island is entertaining, but it’s sending out a dangerous message about consent
The IndependentThe best of Voices delivered to your inbox every week - from controversial columns to expert analysis Sign up for our free weekly Voices newsletter for expert opinion and columns Sign up to our free weekly Voices newsletter SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. Read our privacy policy Two and a half million viewers tuned into Love Island’s opening show on Monday night. She later said: “I know what I want … and that’s not it.” While Aaron, without a hint of irony, justified his choice by saying: “If you’re not attracted to someone then there’s no point really, you’re not going to fall in love.” The inherent suggestion is that consent is a nice bonus, but by no means essential when it comes to making a move on someone. That’s without even mentioning the concept of “grafting”: a word repeatedly used on the programme to imply that participants really need to put in the work when it comes to grinding down a reluctant partner. Rape culture isn’t just about high profile court cases, it’s about how we absorb ideas around consent, power imbalances and what healthy relationships should look like.