Fertility rate: what women who had five or more kids want you to know.
SlateCatherine Ruth Pakaluk, a Harvard Ph.D.–holding economist at the Catholic University of America, in Washington, has eight children. By picking college-educated women, she writes, “I could get a cleaner sense of the role of kids in subjects’ descriptions of self-identity, marital quality, and life satisfaction without confounding variables from poverty and financial worry, since college education makes those things less likely.” This is, I suppose, true, but the choice also lends a decidedly rosy cast to these stories. At least one of them married a guy who really wanted a big family and who, she admits while caveating that he’s not a “jerk,” wanted her tested for fertility before they got engaged. “These narratives” of these five-or-more mothers’ lives “sorely challenge family policy prescriptions, particularly pro-natalist policies,” Pakaluk writes. “I’m willing to bet that you’re gonna forget about your hamstring, you’re gonna sprint upstairs, you’re gonna grab your kids, you make sure your wife’s good, and you’re gettin’ out of that house,” Bryant said.