My Boyfriend and I Want to Find Other Men for Me to Sleep With. They All Have the Same Problem.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Dear How to Do It, My boyfriend and I are both really into cucking, and it’s a huge fantasy of mine to lovingly “humiliate” him by sleeping with other, well-hung men. I know there’s no rush to go out and have sex with people I’m not attracted to, but I really want to do this! Initial chemistry is absolutely a phenomenon, but it takes time to build the kind of connection and familiarity with each other’s sexuality that you have with your boyfriend—which is part of the transcendent sex the two of you have, that you’re having trouble finding someone to eclipse in a way that works for the cucking fantasies you have. So I’m going to give you the same advice I give anyone who is having a hard time finding what they want on the dating scene.