How To Get A Date When You're An Introvert (Or Just Hate Small Talk)
Sam Edwards via Getty Images He might be the one. Though small talk can feel a bit hollow and superficial, it’s not supposed to be profound; it’s merely a way of connecting with another person, said Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After “The conversation may or may not go deeper, but trying to start a conversation in the deep end can be very risky,” Dembling said. “Introverts do better in smaller groups so instead of staying all evening at the office party, go for a short amount of time and then invite two or three people you like to join you for dessert somewhere else after the party,” Savage said. “Luckily for introverts, the Internet provides ample opportunities to use our writing skills to reach beyond small talk to connection,” she said. “Clearly state that you are an introvert and don’t be afraid to ask someone if he or she is an introvert,” Kozak said.
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