More couples are signing ‘relationship contracts’ while dating

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. Read our privacy policy “Relationship contracts” are gaining popularity among couples, say experts. With 46.8 million posts about “relationship contracts” on TikTok, the idea that people should create a relationship contract as a means to set clear boundaries and expectations has become popular with those on the dating scene. Whether it’s to create a sense of accountability or help prevent or minimize conflict in the long term, “relationship contracts” are meant to bring everybody on the same page. Dr. Molly Burrets, a licensed clinical psychologist, explained to Popsugar: “Typical topics in a dating contract include expectations around behaviors, fidelity or exclusivity agreements, relationship goals, conflict resolution plans, shared responsibilities, communication guidelines, and boundaries on important issues like physical intimacy or interactions with friends and family.” A relationship contract can be helpful who have had trouble setting boundaries, especially those who are dealing with anxiety or past trauma.