My Long-Distance Girlfriend Has a “Preference” for What I Do on My Own Time in Bed. I’m Not Sure It’s Even Possible.
SlateHow to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. —Frustrated With Only Myself Dear Frustrated With Only Myself, Some people really get off on themselves—with only their own thoughts and bodies and no outside stimuli—and others absolutely don’t. The general advice for shifting your masturbation habits is to forgo whatever you’ve become reliant on for long enough that you reach the point where anything will get you over the edge of orgasm. Since your main reason to avoid porn is out of respect for your partner’s feelings, I’d go ahead and run this idea past her first, but it might be an acceptable exception since it’s memory based and has to do with fond previous experiences with her. I’m about to move cities and begin afresh in a new dating pool, and I definitely want to be having sex with new people when I move.
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