Jonathan Haidt and smartphones: For his movement to work, parents need to give something up.
SlateOn the issue of kids, smartphones, and social media, a vibe shift is happening, and it’s happening on the left, right, and in the center. Not so long ago, the default position, if one were an internet-savvy older person beginning to feel queasy when noticing groups of kids bent over their phones, was to say to oneself, “Well, that’s life; once, Socrates feared print’s effect on memory, and now, I fear this.” One definitely didn’t say out loud, online, “The kids shouldn’t have phones,” unless one were writing for the Atlantic. “Some of us really don’t like our screen time habits criticized,” Taylor wrote in a follow-up Substack analyzing the replies to her recent “it’s the phones” provocation on X. Haidt works his way around some of the most popular “it’s not the phones!” counterarguments. Sure, there’s distance between “banning your kid from a smartphone” and “going to the U.S. Open alone.” But for the parents I did a gut check with, if the ability to call up an app during the school day and see that their children were right where they were supposed to be—or to check texts, or a child’s social media, for proof of life and safety—was available?