My Husband Just Made a Shocking Request Only Weeks After I Had a Baby
SlateHow to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. —Baffled Incoming Freshman Dear Baffled, Given all your boundaries, I think the best thing you can do is settle in, get to know your roommate’s schedule, and choose times when your roommate is out. It might be “kind of gross,” but you know what they say about desperate times, and if you’re going days, weeks, months without masturbating, you’re going to get plenty desperate. I’ve done some googling and everyone seems to say something along the lines of “stop watching porn for a bit and don’t masturbate for a week or two, any physical stimulation should get you excited enough to get hard and stay hard.” This in theory makes sense, but I get insane sex dreams that usually make me orgasm in my sleep if I don’t ejaculate once every two days at the very least—no, I’m not still a teen, I’m 23 this year, and if I don’t masturbate regularly, I still have to deal with annoying and messy wet dreams. If I were you, I’d say something like, “When I masturbate, I think about you masturbating and I would love to watch you do that.
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