Come as You Are book: Why Emily Nagoski’s guide to understanding your sexual desires has been No. 1 on Slate.
SlateSlate has relationships with various online retailers. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Change Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski is a frequent recommendation of Slate’s sex advice columnists Stoya and Rich Juzwiak—and How to Do It’s regular endorsement has made it Slate’s top-selling book for the past two years. Stoya: Like you said, even though the book is written with cisgender women in mind, I’ve heard from a number of men that understanding this model of sexual arousal helps them understand themselves. Stoya: Cis women have basically a coin toss’s chance of arousal concordance, which explains a lot of the “Why am I into this?” questions. Rich: ”I have these unresolved sexual issues, and now I at least have hope of managing them.” Stoya: ”I learned something interesting about myself from this worksheet.” Rich: It’s really a tool for getting to know yourself and your body even better.
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