My Husband Got a Creepy Birthday Gift. Now It’s Become My Ultimate Competition.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Dear How to Do It, A few months ago, my husband, “Byron,” was given what I consider an inappropriate birthday gift by his brother, “Wes,” and it’s reached a boiling point for me. I also encounter people who are like, “You’re so normal, but I’m so sorry you had to deal with all those creepy guys who are weirdos who can’t get a real woman.” That is its own kind of stigma—and actually, a lot of the people that I saw at conventions, and a lot of the people that I interacted with when I had an OnlyFans account, are married or in a relationship. It’s an 18-plus environment.” So I get really defensive about people who use adult entertainment and use adult products being cast as weird because actually it’s really normal. If these are real people, I’d be like, “I’m out.” Rich: Ideally, I think she would allow him to have his masturbation aid, just apart from her.