
I’ve Had the Same Perfect Sexual Hobby for Years. Now It’s All Going to Combust.
SlateEvery week, Rich and Stoya answer a special question they could only tackle together, just for Slate Plus members. Other friends tell me she’s sucked up all the emotional space I could have given to an actual partner, but I always saw her and our writing as my saving grace. My steady diet of romantic fantasies has left me with impossibly high standards, and I doubt I’d enjoy actual sex in this body, with the type of person I could actually attract. Rich: When they say, “My steady diet of romantic fantasies has left me with impossibly high standards, and I doubt I’d enjoy actual sex in this body with the type of person I could actually attract,” that’s a lot of assumptions. There’s nothing that we could say that would be more useful than this person just taking a better outlook and saying, “This stuff is at least possible.” Stoya: Yeah.
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