No One Told Me What Comes After Sex. I’m a Little Lost.

Slate Plus members get more How to Do It each week. I know that you’re not supposed to have sex in pools/hot tubs/water due to concern about contracting a yeast infection… would there be a similar risk with the shower nozzle method? —After Care Conundrum Dear After Care Conundrum, The first thing you can do is be very clear about whether you’re open to being ejaculated inside of. I’ve had a considerable amount of sex with people with penises, frequently involving penetration, and have only rarely been creampied. I know infidelity happens all the time and it’s not really any of my business, but where does my social responsibility come in when I found out that she’s having unprotected sex?