Dabney Coleman, the beloved character actor who famously played the dastardly cad overseeing Jane Fonda, Lily Tomlin and Dolly Parton in the movie “9 to 5,” has died. I don’t want to do jokes,” the actor told The Times in 1991, when he gained a reputation as the king of TV curmudgeons in the unconventional TV comedies “Mary Hartman, Mary …