The Skinnygirl CEO also defended her right to 'reflect' on her RHONY stint Bethenny denied speaking badly of the show but she did call it 'toxic' Andy called it 'hypocritical' since she's 'trashed' the Bravo show for years The tense back-and-forth began as Bethenny and Andy attempted to 'hash out' their own feud over the podcast She got fired up …