TAMPA, Fla. — Defenseman Ryan McDonagh was in his Tampa home watching the Lightning play the Flyers in Philadelphia on Jan. 11. “He’s an AYA.” McDonagh was referring to the “Adolescent and Young Adult” program at Moffit Cancer Center, which is the beneficiary of his and Alex Killorn’s Jam Kancer in the Kan tournament Friday at Sparkman Wharf. “Hopefully,” McDonagh …