Tom Girardi, center, arrives at court in February after being indicted by a federal grand jury for allegedly embezzling $18 million from clients. “Did Mr. Girardi have difficulty remembering his children’s names?” asked Harbaugh, of the federal public defender’s office. On cross-examination, the prosecutor, Moghaddas, asked why Wood hadn’t sought to interview Girardi’s wife, Erika, whom he described as “quite …