Why is it so hard to get a date using a dating app these days?

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent. They have an online dating profile a little like a gym membership – it’s something everyone does, but it doesn’t mean you devote any time or energy to it or believe you’ll end up with an impressive six-pack.” Just because someone is on an app, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re placed to date someone, agrees Quinn: “Lots of people aren’t actively creating time and space for dating.” The dopamine hit of a new connection can become addictive and make the actual face-to-face meeting feel superfluous Sally Baker Another trend on the rise is people connecting online but rarely getting past the messaging stage, says Baker. “The dopamine hit of a new connection can become addictive and make the actual face-to-face meeting feel superfluous.” To avoid this rather disappointing fate, Quinn suggests scheduling an IRL date early on. But we’ve always been focused on trying to make it easier for singles to connect, and we will continue to innovate and improve our products to get people on better dates.” And, as Baker puts it, “the benefit of online dating is the possibility of meeting someone special you would not have encountered in your daily life”. But if he puts his hand on my knee, stares deeply into my eyes, and says, “I think we both know why we’re here” – I’m out.