Different Types Of Narcissists: What You Should Know

Maria Korneeva via Getty Images Experts have proposed categorizing narcissists into a variety of different subtypes, but a popular breakdown in the zeitgeist of late is grandiose, vulnerable, communal, antagonistic and malignant. Grandiose Or Overt Narcissism “Grandiose narcissism is the most well-known subtype of narcissistic personality disorder, as it’s the one most people think of when they hear the word ‘narcissist,’” said Hannah Alderete, a licensed mental health counselor and the author of “Break Free From Narcissistic Mothers: A Step-by-Step Workbook for Ending Toxic Behavior, Setting Boundaries, and Reclaiming Your Life.” She noted that this type of narcissism is characterized by arrogance, entitlement, unstable self-esteem, low empathy and a need for attention and validation. “Covert narcissists often project their self-responsibility onto others, making those around them feel guilty or obligated to ‘take care of’ their emotional well-being,” Alderete said. They often hide behind community roles, activism or parenting personas, but the motivation is self-serving,” said Tina Swithin, author of “Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle.” How to deal with communal narcissists: “If you have to engage with a communal narcissist, it’s important to maintain strong boundaries and recognize that their public displays of care and generosity do not necessarily extend to personal relationships,” Alderete said. “These individuals often engage in long-term abuse tactics, including gaslighting and character assassination.” How to deal with malignant narcissists: “The best approach is to avoid engaging with a malignant narcissist entirely,” Alderete said.