Stop fixing your child, start feeling: Transform your parenting approach with these 5 tips
Hindustan TimesThere is no challenge as rewarding as parenting but driven by the desire to protect and nurture their children, parents sometimes instinctively focus on "fixing" problems rather than understanding the emotions behind them. Validate Emotions: Say things like, “It’s okay to feel sad,” or “That sounds really frustrating.” This teaches your child that emotions are normal and manageable. Say things like, “It’s okay to feel sad,” or “That sounds really frustrating.” This teaches your child that emotions are normal and manageable. Set Personal Boundaries: Share examples of your own boundaries, like saying, “I need some quiet time right now, but we can talk after dinner.” Share examples of your own boundaries, like saying, “I need some quiet time right now, but we can talk after dinner.” Encourage Autonomy: Give your child age-appropriate opportunities to make choices and respect their decisions when possible. Ask Questions Without Leading: Use open-ended questions like, “How did that make you feel?” or “What do you think would help?” Resist Judging or Fixing: Avoid offering solutions unless they ask.
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